“I can't” are such simple words with so much weight.
We're not supernatural, so clearly there are some things that aren't humanly possible to do. But this is not me saying the words, “I can't” are okay to use every once in a while. Even if you don't literally utter, “I can't”, you substitute it by starting your sentences with words, like “it's impossible”, “there's no way”, “I'm not good at...” or “I don't think I can” which seem quite harmless in the beginning.
Fast forward to months later where the beginning is long gone. Here comes the part where you wonder why certain things aren't working in your favor. Can I let you in on a little secret? No one's to be blamed but you.
You practice speaking “I can't” into your every day life and so you never applied for the job you've always wanted or gone after the guy/girl of your dreams. So inevitably, you become the sideline king/queen. That's right, you're at the sidelines watching someone else make the millions you could be making or live happily ever after with the guy/girl of your dreams.
Stop fighting against yourself! Imagine the amount of blessings you've blocked from your life with that mentality. You're your worst enemy! “I can't” will not get you anywhere, it's time to realize this!
If you understood the power you have just by being human, you'd never dare think you're inadequate. We have dominion over the earth [Genesis 1:26]! No other specie is able to make ground breaking records like we have. We are all blessed beyond words with our innate abilities. Nothing should stop us from reaching for the stars!
Once you erase “I can't” from your life, you should be inspired to get out there and become the best that you can be. Just remember “I can” isn't a magic wand and therefore things won't just fall into your lap at your every “I can” command.
Work hard and keep the energy going, because hard work with the right attitude will get you what you deserve.
There's power in the tongue—speak life!